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Personal Training: 8 Steps to Break the Cycle of Self-Sabotage

I would love to say that every client we work with reaches their health and fitness goals and leaves our studio happier and healthier than they could have ever imagined. After all, that’s what we – as the trainers and instructors – want for them, and what we work tirelessly, both in sessions and outside of sessions, to help them achieve. We have developed a unique and foolproof plan to help anyone reach their goals, and we have proven results from lots of clients who have, indeed, reached and even exceeded their goals with us. But the truth is, many clients that we work with quit before they reach their health and fitness goals. Why? Not because they are incapable – because they are all capable. But because they sabotage themselves, in one way or another, and prevent themselves from getting to where they want to be, and from allowing us to help. Some clients even begin the self-sabotage pattern before they begin training. Here we’ll discuss how to know if you’re self-sabotaging, why self-sabotaging happens, and how you can break the cycle in order to make real progress with your goals, whatever they may be.

Most people have sabotaged themselves at some point in their life, whether it was procrastinating on that report in school, missing an important event at work, or eating Ben and Jerry’s after a commitment to go sugar free. We sabotage ourselves when things are hard, or uncomfortable, and even sometimes when things are good. It doesn’t seem to make sense, and we often aren’t even aware that that’s what we’re doing.

It doesn’t make you a failure if you do this, it makes you human. The key is, though, to bring awareness to these patterns and to work toward change.

How to Know if You’re Self-Sabotaging

Personal Training is, well, personal. We get to know our clients really well, and because we’re more objective, we’re often able to see things – patterns – that the client may not see themselves. Here are some ways that we suspect that we’re dealing with self-sabotage:

  • A client with significant health issues signs up for a definitive number of sessions and immediately talks about quitting once those sessions are over.
  • A client who pronounces within 5 minutes of meeting is that they have a pattern of self-sabotage, yet often have not taken any steps to overcome this.
  • A client that misses sessions with various excuses
  • A client that refuses to try parts of our plan; or a client who agrees to our plan but consistently makes same mistakes without concrete attempt to overcome
  • A client that says something to the effect of “I really want to _______, but I will not do ______”. For example “I want to lose weight but I refuse to give up bread” or “I want to lower my blood pressure but I don’t have time to take deep breaths every day”.
  • A client who makes progress, but then quits before reaching his/her goals.

Do any of these things sound familiar? Do you see yourself doing or thinking this way? Self-sabotaging comes from negative self statements and fear. The negative self statements are often things that we tell ourselves subconsciously, that sabotage our efforts. For example “I’m too fat to do that”, “I won’t succeed”, “I’m not worth it”. These statements translate into fear of doing things that are hard. Fear of overcoming all the things that hold us back. Fear of allowing ourselves to do good things for ourselves because it might not last. These statements and feelings can translate into “I’ll never get to my goal so I might as well enjoy this pizza and ice cream” or “I can’t afford personal training anymore” or ” This plan isn’t for me”.

How to Break the Cycle

So if you see this pattern in yourself, or suspect that you may have a tendency to self-sabotage, you’re probably now wondering what you can do about it. We’ll, actually wanting to do something about it is the first step! Here are 8 Steps to Break the Cycle of Self-Sabotage, to move forward with your goals, and to be your best self:

  1. Acknowledge what you’re doing
  2. Dig deep and find that inner voice of negativity. What is it saying? Is there a theme?
  3. Become aware of the feelings and thoughts that arise when you become uncomfortable. The diet gets too hard, the workouts are challenging, your trainer asks questions that make you reflect on negativity from your past: what do you see yourself doing and hear yourself saying in these moments?
  4. Now that you have brought awareness to the negative voices and your behavior patterns, you must work to actively and consciously change these things.
  5. Set small goals – setting goals too big or unrealistic can lead to failure and further negativity toward yourself.
  6. Practice non-judgment and non-harming toward yourself. When you hear the negative voices creeping in, acknowledge them, without judgment, and consciously change them to positive or kind voices. By consciously changing the internal chatter, the subconscious will soon follow.
  7. Enjoy and celebrate in your accomplishments, no matter how small.
  8. Don’t give up. When you feel like giving up, go back to Step 1.

If you find that self-sabotage is something you struggle with, or if you struggle to reach health and fitness goals but aren’t sure why, come see us, we can help! Contact us to schedule your free private consult in-studio or virtually!

Why Farm Animal (aka Goat) Yoga?



When I first tell people about our Farm Animal Yoga classes, most either think it’s “interesting” or “hilarious”. And I agree, it is kind of both.  But yoga has gotten some backlash for all of its trendy new takes on the practice, from BeerYoga to Hot Yoga to yes, Goat Yoga. Yoga, like everything else, has its critics. But is combining yoga, steeped in thousands of years of tradition and methodology, with beer, heat, or animals, taking something away from the practice? In my opinion, it depends on what you consider to be a practice.

Let’s go back for a second to what yoga really is. Beyond the poses, the sweaty arm balances, the lotus on the beach, meditating at sunset awesomeness of what our images of yoga may be. The foundations of the practice; the reason the practice is so hard; the reason for that euphoric “ahhhhh” feeling after an hour of “paying attention” on your mat; the reason so many of us strive to be yogi, and are so eager to hop on any bandwagon that will get us there. Yoga enables us to be our best selves, and to let go of the negativity and toxicity that surrounds us and influences us. Yoga gives us the freedom to be who we are naturally, and to be okay with just being, with presence. Yoga quite simply means to unite mind, body and spirit, and according to the sutras, yoga is the “cessation of the fluctuation of the mindstuff”. In other words, yoga quiets the mind and the ego. Yoga’s yamas and niyamas teach kindness, compassion, truthfulness, nonjudgment, and self-discipline; to relinquish hostility and to live less materially and more cleanly. To honor not only yourself, but the living beings that surround us, and our environment.

Yoga is work, and through this work we help to create a more peaceful and sustaining space for ourselves and a more peaceful and sustaining universe.

Yoga is only in part what happens on the mat; but mostly it’s about what happens off the mat.

With this in mind, does it really matter if yoga is practiced on paddleboards or in a heated room or with animals? Isn’t it still the same practice? If you drink a glass of locally crafted beer before, after, or during your asana practice, does that make it less of a practice? If, while doing downward dog, a goat jumps on your back or you get distracted by a puppy nuzzling your arm, does that take away from living mindfully?  If your yoga is playing a round of golf, rock climbing, or sailing your boat, does that make you less of a yogi? I would argue not.

Farm Animal Yoga

Farm Animal Yoga is not only a way to make yoga accessible and fun, and to bring people to the mat that maybe needed a little extra incentive to begin a practice, but it’s also about connecting to animals and nature, a basic human need. I think Goat Yoga has been such a big trend in cities across the country because people are yearning for the excuse to spend time with nature, and with animals. Being on a beautiful farm, with amazing little creatures, away from the stressors of everyday life doesn’t hurt either. Through our Farm Animal Yoga classes, we hope that people will find a reconnection to – and maybe a newfound love for – outdoors and animal life. And find the space to explore the practice of yoga and what that may mean for them. Lastly, we want – and expect – students to leave feeling relaxed and rejuvenated, while also uplifted and happy because of their new animal friends!

I encourage you to make your yoga your practice, whatever that may be. If you love nature, and/or you love animals, or if you’re curious what a farm animal yoga class would be like, for if you’re just into trying new things, you are welcome to our Farm Animal Yoga classes, and we hope you’ll come. New to the practice or seasoned practitioner, all are welcome! We encourage students to stay after to snuggle with the animals and take pictures if they want!

Serving Dresher, Abington, Glenside, Jenkintown, Flourtown, Oreland, Maple Glen, Willow Grove, Mt Airy, Chestnut Hill, East Falls, Plymouth Meeting, Lafayette Hill, Ambler, Philadelphia, Wyndmoor, Wyncote, Yardlsey, Springfield Township, Blue Bell, North Hills Ft. Washington, Bala Cynwood, Conshohocken, Springhouse, North Wales, Horsham, and all over PA and everywhere else!

Water and Rock Studio Presents: 

Farm Animal Yoga (aka GOAT YOGA)

Goat Yoga is a thing. And we’re doing it! With several adorable baby goats, fun-loving adult goats, and llamas and alpacas looking on, this is a yoga class you’ll never forget. Practice yoga while these cuties nuzzle you, sniff you, and even jump on you in their natural yogi element! Stay and play with animals after! No experience needed. All levels welcome.

Location: Mountain Pride Farm, 869 Woodbine Lane, Quakertown PA
When: Sundays 9-10am

Cost: $35/drop-ins (advanced registration required)

Register today as spots are filling quickly!


15-Minute Energizing and Balancing Yoga Sequence to Jumpstart Your Day!

I love starting my day with yoga, and can tell a big shift in my day, and my ability to handle the challenges of my day, when I do. For me, it doesn’t have to be an asana practice, on my mat, with peace and quiet. That’s not realistic in my life, and I’m okay with that! Sometimes my morning yoga practice is a 2-minute meditation during my shower, or a few deep breaths as I’m waking. And on those rare days that I wake before the kids do and have time to pull out my mat, it’s breathing, asana, and meditation. This 15-Minute Energizing and Balancing Yoga Sequence is a favorite of mine to flow through when I need a little extra boost in the morning. If you don’t have 15 minutes you can shorten the number of sun salutations, and on the flip side if you have more time, add more! With each posture, take 5-10 deep breaths before moving on to the next.

By the way, here are some of my favorite yoga props and mats to help you explore the poses a little more, and with a little more ease and fun:

15-Minute Energizing and Balancing Yoga Sequence to Jumpstart Your Day!

  1.  5 Sun Salutations A (Surya Namaskara A). When ready, begin gently flowing through your Sun Salutations. Remember to modify or take breaks as needed. Here is a video of Suzanne demonstrating a basic Sun Salute A:


2. Warrior 1 (Virabhadrasana I).  From your last Downward Dog, bring the right foot forward and step it in between your hands. Spin the back heel down to the floor, toes pointing slightly forward. Bend the front knee and you reach the arms up toward the ceiling and lift your gaze. Move to Warrior 3, right side.



3. Warrior 3 (Virabhadrasana III).  From Warrior 1, Firmly root front foot into the ground and begin shifting your balance onto the front foot, lifting the back leg so that it is parallel to the mat, while simultaneously tilting torso forward, until parallel with mat also (for modified version, only lift leg and lower torso partway). Activate back leg by lengthening leg and flexing the foot, toes pointing down. Try to even the hips so one is not higher than the other. Reach arms to the side for this flying version. Repeat Warrior 1 and Warrior 3 on the other side.


4. Warrior 2 (Virabhadrasana II).  From Downward Dog, step right foot in between your hands, spin back heel down, and bend the front knee as you cartwheel the arms up, reaching hands to opposite sides of the room. Root down through both feet evenly, and breathe into the pose as you gently feel the hips and shoulders softening. Move into Half Moon, right side.



5. Half Moon (Ardha Candrasana). From Warrior 2 right side, plant right hand about 6 inches in front of right foot (use a block to place hand on if the floor seems too far). Begin shifting your weight onto the front hand and foot as you gently lift the back leg, raising it parallel to the floor, and stacking the hips. Activate back leg. Left arm reaches straight toward the ceiling, creating a strong line from the left hand all the way down through the right hand, grounded. Gaze toward the ground or up toward top hand. *Modification: Keep both hands down in front of front foot foot, until you feel stable enough to begin lifting one arm.


6. Boat (Navasana). From Downward Dog, step through to seated. Lift legs in front of you, keeping them together, so that you make a “V” with your body. Sit up tall on your sitz bones, lengthening through the spine as you breathe. Reach the arms forward, fingers extended. Legs can be straight, bent, or you can hold the backs of your legs if needed.



7. Forward Fold (Paschimottanasana). From seated, stretch your legs out onto the mat straight in front of you. Root down into the ground as you lengthen your spine, lifting crown of the head up toward the ceiling. Activate the legs by flexing the feet, toes pointed up and pulling back toward you. Inhale lengthen, exhale fold forward, reaching for the sides of the feet or the backs of the leg. (If hamstrings are tight here, you can use a strap around your feet to assist in the fold!). Continue extending through the spine with each inhale, and melting into the fold on each exhale.


8. Butterfly (Badhakonasana). From seated, bend knees and bring soles of the feet together, knees out to the sides. Draw the heels in close and open up the feet like opening a book. Inhale and lengthen the spine, lifting crown of the head toward the ceiling. Exhale, hinge at the hips and fold over feet. With each in breath continue to elongate spine, folding a little deeper with each out breath.



9. Bridge (Setu Bandha Sarvangasana). From your back, bend knees and plant feet hip distance apart, bringing the heels in close (ideally brushing heels with your fingertips). Rooting down into your feet and big toes, lift hips toward ceiling, tucking shoulders under you slightly to open through the chest and collarbone. Keep knees parallel, activating inner thighs as if squeezing a block between them (use a block if you have one, and notice the difference!). Hold for several breaths and then repeat. When done, keep knees bent, step feet a little wider, and windshield-wiper knees from side to side.


10. Corpse (Savasana). Lie on your back and take a little rest! Let feet fall open, arms relax by your sides, palms up. Make any little adjustments you need to make yourself comfortable. Close your eyes, bring awareness to the breath and relax here for several breaths. Thank your body for all of the amazing things that it does!

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Everyday Kids Yoga: Spring Theme

Everyday Kids Yoga: Spring Theme

Spring is just around the corner and with the inconsistency of this year’s winter weather here in Philly, some of the flowers are confused. Daffodils and crocuses have bloomed in our yard, and last year’s chives are already making a reappearance. I can’t help but start to feel a little spring in my step (pun intended) too! So for my kids yoga classes I am beginning to add in some spring-themed poses, activities and discussion. Spring is such an inspiring season for kids yoga, as there are ample opportunities to talk about nature! Gratitude toward the sun and rain, new life beginning, budding flowers, animals reappearing after hiding away all winter. I encourage you to get creative, have fun, and try a little spring yoga with your kids. Learn more about the benefits of yoga for kids here. Here are some of my favorite spring-themed yoga poses and activities that are easy for parents and teachers to try, and hopefully they will inspire you to get creative too!

Spring Theme Ideas

Standing Poses:

  1. Warrior 1 – From Mountain Pose, step the left foot back about 2 feet. Bend front knee. Opening arms up toward the sun, breathe in the fresh air and warmth of the sun’s rays! Switch sides.

    Quinn doing Tree Pose

  2. Tree Pose – From Mountain Pose, bring the left foot onto the lower part of the right leg, with knee bent, out to side. Balance on one foot and use your arms to “make branches”. Imagine that you have roots growing from your feet down into the earth. What kind of tree are you? Repeat other side.
  3. Sun Salutation – For older children you can talk about why we’re thankful for the sun, and why we need the sun. Begin in Mountain Pose, standing tall with hands by your sides. Inhale, Reach up to the sky to say hi to the sun. Reach down to the ground to pat the earth. Deep breath in, step back to snake or cobra pose as you breathe out. Hsssssss. Deep breath in, and exhale to downward dog. Bark like a dog and wag your tail. Few breaths here. I gale jump feet back to hands. Next inhale rise back up to say hi to the sun again. Exhale back to mountain. Here is a great video demonstrating a kids sun salutation by Quinn:


Seed to Tree Activity

Quinn doing Child’s Pose, or “Seed”

Begin with a short discussion about seeds ad what they need to grow.

We’re going to be little seeds now who grow into beautiful trees or flowers. Have child(ren) come to Child’s Pose (seeds). Alternately announce the warm sun shining down, then rain (pat their backs with your fingers), then, as they grow, the wind (they can sway in the wind). Each round they grow a little more until they are all the way up to standing, swaying in the breeze and enjoying the warm sun rays. Ask them what flower or tree they are, what color, what smell!

Book: The Very Hungry Caterpillar

My kids love this book. No matter how many times we read it, it never gets old. I love using it in my Kids Yoga classes too, especially in the spring. Depending on the age of children you’re working with, a little discussion about new life and how things grow is a great way to introduce this story. When reading, have the children act out the different poses (i.e. Child’s Pose for the seed, inch on bellies for caterpillar) and have the young ones help you count the food. Kids love being a hungry caterpillar, finding “food” all over the room as they wiggle about, and then turning into beautiful flapping butterflies!

Seated/Supine Poses

  1. Quinn and Xavier doing Flower Pose

    Butterfly – Sit up tall, bend knees and bring soles of the feet together. Hold ankles and flap “wings”. Wear “antennae” (using hands for antennae) and fly around smelling the flowers (your feet). What do they smell like? What color are they?

  2. Flower (partner or group) – Sit up tall and press feet into your partner’s feet, or sides of the feet into your neighbor’s. Holding hands, lift legs, keeping them spread wide. Take a few breaths.
  3. Snake – Lie on tummy. Slither and lift head and chest.  Can you move without using your arms and legs?

Dandelion Breath

My kids love finding dandelions, and of course making wishes on them. For this technique all you need is imagination! Have children hold their imaginary dandelions in their hand, make a wish on the inhale and blow the dandelion seeds on the exhale. You can have them practice blowing softly and blowing in short hard bursts. Watch the seeds fly in the wind!

I hope you enjoy doing some of these Kids Yoga Spring-themed ideas, and that it inspires you to create your own as well. Have fun with it, and let me know how you and your kids get creative! Contact us to learn more about our Kids programs and offerings.

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Yoga and the Mind-Body-Spirit Connection

Yoga and the Mind-Body-Spirit Connection

Yoga is everywhere. Celebrities credit yoga for their svelte physiques, yoga studios are popping up on every corner, and yoga pants are the new jeans. I don’t even wear jeans anymore. “Yoga” is a buzzword for sure, and most often – in our culture – used to reference yoga postures, or asanas. I find that even seasoned yoga students sometimes have difficulty answering the “What is Yoga” question, and many students come to a yoga class originally for the physical benefits: flexibility, coordination, balance, etc. That’s what originally drew me to the practice, in fact. But, like many, I soon discovered that yoga encompasses so much more, and I haven’t stopped practicing since. So what IS yoga, what does it have to do with the mind and spirit, and what is the mind-body-spirit connection?

What is Yoga?

The word “yoga” means “to yoke” or “to unite”, as in to unite the body, mind and spirit. Yoga originated in ancient India as physical, mental and spiritual practices. Later, yoga was introduced to, and quickly gained popularity in, the western part of the world as primarily a physical practice. While yoga history and philosophy are becoming more known in our culture, the stigma of yoga being simply another form of physical exercise remains. However, growing bodies of research related to meditation and asana credit yoga with significant stress reduction, improving cardiovascular health, controlling diabetes, promoting healthy mood and self-concept, and even longevity. Students of mine have touted the benefits of yoga, ranging from healing hip and back pain, to making pregnancy and labor smooth and relaxed, to diminishing significant body tremors, to improving overall stress management. You may be wondering how yoga does all of this. The answer: through mind-body-spirit connection!

The Mind-Body-Spirit Connection

As yoga teaches us, the mind, body and spirit are all connected; what we think effects our bodies and what our bodies do effects our minds. Yoga postures are just as important as other aspects of yoga, such as meditation, breathing, truth, or compassion, and all of these things lead to a deeper interconnection and unification the mind, body and spirit. To say it simply, a relaxed and healthy mind and spirit leads to a relaxed and healthy body, and vice versa.

Practicing the Mind-Body-Spirit Connection
Once you begin a yoga practice, you will pretty quickly begin to notice the benefits. Maybe physically at first, but if you are observant you will soon notice other aspects of your mind, your body, your life, starting to shift. Here are some examples of how the mind-body-spirit connection comes into play:

  • Physical Goals. When struggling physically, observe what the mind is doing. For example, if your goal is to improve physical balance, and you find that even holding tree pose for more than 5 seconds is challenging, you may want to observe what the mind is doing when you’re practicing tree pose. Maybe you feel anxious because you know balance is challenging for you, or frustrated with your body, or maybe you’re thinking about something else. Come out of the pose, take a few deep breaths to calm and quiet the mind, and then come back to the pose. Observe, without judgment, how your tree pose feels now.
  • Mental Health. When focusing on mental goals, pay attention to what the body is needing. For example, if stress-management is an issue for you, as it is for most, and you find it difficult to sit quietly to calm the mind, your body may need more. Try this: When feeling stressed or overwhelmed, stop, move through 5 or more sun salutations (adding in other poses if you like). Don’t forget to connect the breath to your movements. Then you may be ready to return to what you were doing, with a renewed energy and perspective.
  • Fulfillment. Check in with the spirit. For example, yoga teaches us to be kind and compassionate toward ourself, toward others, and toward our environment. If you feel disconnected somehow, or feel unfulfilled in some way, find a way to give back or to follow a passion. It can be something as simple as bringing a cup of coffee to your dry cleaner, shoveling snow for a neighbor, or enrolling in art classes. Or maybe a bigger project within the community, or sharing yoga with a local group. Fulfilling the spirit will lead to a healthy state of mind and body.
  • Lifestyle. Healthy lifestyle choices lead to healthy mind, body and spirit. Are you sleeping enough? Are you exercising? Are you eating real, whole foods, and eating mindfully? Have you eliminated most toxins from your environment? Being good and kind to your body will deepen your mind-body-spirit connection, and optimize your overall health.

At Water and Rock Studio, our private yoga sessions and small group classes help strengthen this mind-body-spirit connection through movement, meditation, breathing techniques, and other yoga teachings. Yoga is an integral part of our overall philosophy of integrating mind and body to optimize health, heal disease, and reach wellness goals. Contact us to try our online private yoga sessions or yoga classes, or if local to Philadelphia, a class or private session.
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Reduce Stress with Deep Breaths

Reduce Stress with Deep Breaths

Anyone who frequents a yoga class has heard the words “deep breaths” probably multiple times. Most yogis and non-yogis alike have heard the phrase “take a deep breath” at some point in their lives. And deep breathing is all over self help books and google searches as a major way to cope with stress. So what’s all the hype about deep breaths? Is it just a cliche or can it really make a difference? Here we explore how deep breathing can reduce stress in the body, and how to know if you’re doing it correctly (yes, there actually is a method to proper breathing!).

Deep Breaths and Stress
Deep breathing can have small, large, and profound effects on health and the body. Research shows that breathing deeply can reduce anxiety and depression, lower blood pressure, improve lung function, and improve sleep. Not to mention reducing stress and calming the body. How?Deep breaths, when done correctly, can move the body from its stress response, otherwise known as “fight or flight”, to a relaxed response, “rest and digest”. They actually engage the parasympathetic nervous system, reversing the stress response in your body, triggered by the body’s sympathetic nervous system. As you may hear in yoga classes, this can not only have positive physiological effects, but emotional effects as well. Deep breathing helps to quiet the mind, easing emotional turmoil and chatter.

How to Breathe Deeply and Reduce Stress
It sounds so easy right? Just take deep breaths. However, breathing properly is actually not intuitive to most adults. Unlike babies and small children, adults are influenced by learned behavior and often have a tendency to tense up the abdominal muscles when breathing, making the breaths shallower and more strained. To benefit fully from deep breathing, you first want to make sure you are relaxing the diaphragm and abdominal muscles, and sitting, standing, or lying in a way that provides space in the upper body for the breath to flow unobstructed and with ease. Place a hand on your belly and slowly inhale, filling the belly, the ribcage, the chest. As you exhale, release the air from top to bottom, fully contracting at the end of the exhale, hugging the belly button in toward the spine. This may feel counterintuitive to you, and you may feel muscles working that you don’t typically feel throughout the day.

We typically recommend to our clients to bring awareness to their breathing throughout the day. Some people respond well to numbers, and for those people we recommend trying to work up to taking about 100 deep breaths a day. For those of you who already have a meditation or other yoga practice, this may come naturally and easily. For many others, this may be something new and even intimidating. Relax, enjoy it! Breathe deeply as you walk down the hall, in between sips of water, during your kid’s soccer game, while you’re sitting in traffic, and as you drift off to sleep at night (the breathing will actually cause you to fall asleep faster!). Maybe you’ll start to notice differences in your response to stressful situations, your ability to manage daily tasks and social interactions, your energy, and your sleep.

Start today – start now! – practicing deep breaths to reduce stress. Contact us at Water and Rock Studio for help with stress relief, lifestyle goals, and to learn various breathing techniques!

Yoga On and Off the Mat

Yoga On and Off the Mat

I have three main jobs in my life right now. I am a police officer, I am a father and husband, and I am also a part-time yoga teacher. These are three very different jobs, but my yoga background ties them all together.

I started my police job seven years ago I had great co-workers and was getting a ton of experience, but I was still teaching yoga part-time and was having trouble finding balance between the two. They were very separate, when I was at home I was an off duty police officer. When I was in the yoga studio I was a yoga instructor. I never considered myself a police officer who taught yoga.

It wasn’t until I started to observe a couple of veteran officers who worked in that area for a while handle stressful scenes that I realized how useful my yoga background is to my job and how it helps me be a better officer. The officers’ voices would increase a couple of octaves and their speech speed up. It dawned on me that “monkey mind” (as my yoga teacher always called it) was rearing its ugly head at my job with men and women who are used to being exposed to stress.

Now don’t get me wrong, I am not saying they are ill-equipped for dealing with stress, everyone deals with stress differently. However, with my experience practicing yoga I handled stress a little differently than most of my coworkers. I had experience dealing with monkey mind from all the work I did on my mat and while some scenes seemed to get stressful I was able to slow things down and pay attention. The ability to slow things down also helped me deescalate situations.

Two years ago I became a field training officer and the biggest lesson I would teach the new officers that I would get was to breathe and slow down once life started to speed up. This is when I really started to realize that I was taking my practice off my mat and out of the studio and using the practice yoga in life, and I am so glad I made this realization because I found I really needed it for my next adventure…fatherhood!

In November 2015, I embarked on one of the hardest (but best) journeys with my wife, raising a child! As of this post my son is 10-months-old and it has been a wild ride so far. The stress of trying to help a little baby human whose only communication method is crying is unreal! I thought I knew what it felt like to be sleep deprived because of my police job, but raising a child has taken it to a new level. I am so glad to have my yoga training.

Talk about monkey mind, I find that I am constantly thinking about what I need to do – or forgot to do. Time is different too, when you sit in easy seated position for 5 minutes it might feel like 15 minutes. I remember in the early days trying to get my crying baby to sleep seemed like 3 hours, but was really only 30 minutes. I learned how to take these moments and turn them into mediation. I would sit there with my son swaddled, rocking him in the rocking chair, bouncing him, patting his butt, and trying to produce calming shushes. Once I learned the rhythm of this baby meditation and started to pay attention to my son and the little nonverbal cues he would give me, it started to make all of our lives easier!

What this comes down to is that the lessons learned on the mat in yoga class can be used as tools to find more balance in life. The physical therapy that yoga gives your body is absolutely beautiful and something everyone should experience. Once you start paying attention to the work you are doing on your mat, then you can pay attention to how that work can transition to your everyday life too!

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Hello, my name is Dan Castan and I have been teaching Yoga in the Northern Virginia area for the last 8 years. I am also a police officer. Yoga came into my life in college while I was studying for my Criminal Justice degree. I picked up Yoga class when I was short on credits one semester. Little did I know it would change my life. I found a way to take yoga for each semester until I graduated then took my 200 hour teacher training course. Now, I use yoga in my everyday life for as many situations as possible and try to help others find that they can do the same. Find out more about me and what I’m up to here



Yoga Sequence for Better Sleep

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Yoga Sequence for Better Sleep

Do you sometimes have trouble falling asleep? Find it difficult to quiet the mind and calm the body following a busy, stress-filled day? You are not alone. Sleep challenges are extremely common among adults, and the majority of Americans get less sleep than they actually need for optimal health.

Next time you have trouble unwinding, try yoga. Slow, deep breaths will relax the body, engaging the “rest and digest” response, and moving away from “fight or flight”. Visualizations can be helpful, guided meditations, and gentle asanas are all great ways to calm and relax. Here is a 5-minute asana sequence to do prior to bedtime each night. Sweet dreams!

1. Prasarita Padottanasana (Wide Legged Forward Bend): Stand with your legs about 3 to 4 feet apart, toes pointing straight ahead. Hands on your hips, stand tall lengthening through the spine. Press into the outer edges of the feet, soften the knees and activate your quads. Staying long in the torso, hinge at the hips to fold, with flat back. Release your hands to the ground or grab the backs of your legs and keep extended through the spine as you breathe into the backs of your legs. Hold for 5-10 breaths and gently release by slowly returning to standing.

2. Janusirsasana (Head to Knee Pose): From seated, extend both legs in front of you, to Staff Pose. Root your sitz bones into the mat and lengthen through the spine. Activate the legs by flexing the feet, toes reaching toward ceiling. To begin janusirsasana, bring your right heel toward your perineum, placing it on your inner left thigh. Inhale and twist slightly to the left, lining rib cage with left thigh, and extending spine. On the exhale gold forward over the left leg, reaching hands for your foot or the back of your leg (a modification for tight hamstrings). Take 5-10 deep breaths before gently returning to Staff Pose and switching to the other leg.

3. Seated Forward Bend (Paschimottanasana): begging on Staff Pose with legs extended in front of you. Inhale ground down into your sitz bones, and lengthen up through the spine. On the exhale, keep the torso long as you fold forward from the hip joints. Inhale find more length in the upper body; exhale fold a little deeper. Hands reach for backs of legs or for the feet. *For tight hamstrings bend the knees slightly and grab the backs of the legs, activating the arms to pull yourself forward from the hips. Avoid rounding the back, but rather continue extended through the spine with each breath. Take 5-10 breaths and gently return to Staff Pose.

4. Balasana (Child’s Pose): Beginnon your hands and knees in Tabletop Pose, with hands lined up underneath the shoulders and knees lined up under the hips. Take the knees wide and sink the hips back to the heels. Extend arms out in from of the body and relax the torso between the upper thighs, forehead on the mat or a block. If it feels more relaxing, take the hands back to the heels and relax the shoulders. Take 10 deep breaths here, before gently returning to Tabletop.

5. Jathara Parivartaranasana (Reclining Twist): Begin by lying on your back, hugging knees into the chest, giving yourself a hug. Roll a little from side to side, massaging the lower spine. Release the knees slightly, forming a 90 degree bend. Rotate the knees to the left, toward

the ground, and allow them to release to the mat. Arms reach out into a “T”, right shoulder reaching toward the mat. Take 5-10 deep breaths here and feel both the belly and the back expanding on each inhale. Gently draw the knees back to center and twist to the other side.

View our video of this sequence here, and keep those deep breaths going and get yourself to bed. After this yoga sequence for better sleep, you’re now ready for a restful night’s sleep!